Small Business Marketing – 5 Deadly Networking Mistakes

Networking – Traditional face to face business networking is a very effective way for small businesses to find new contacts and leads. Unfortunately, it’s also rather easy to get wrong. Here are a few of the most common mistakes, and how to avoid making them.Mistake #1 – Breaking into conversations Take a look at the body language of people who are already in conversation. If they are standing facing each other, they probably prefer not to be disturbed just now. Better to look for someone who’s on their own and introduce yourself, or approach a more ‘open’ looking group of 3 or more.Mistake #2 – Not paying full attention to the person you’re withWhen you’re speaking to anyone at a networking event, be totally focussed on that person. It’s so rude to gaze over their shoulder around the room to see who else might be useful to speak to – and they will notice and remember.Mistake #3 – Not collecting other people’s business cardsThis is so much more important than passing out your own cards. Always carry a small notebook and pen so you can write down their contact details if they don’t have a card.Mistake #4 – Talking too much about yourself or your business When you’re networking, it’s much more powerful to ask questions of the other person. Let’s face it everyone loves talking about themselves so let them be the ones who do most of the talking.Mistake #5 – Sticking with people you already know You go to these events, investing your precious time and money to meet NEW people! By all means say hello to people you know but don’t get trapped into lengthy conversations with them. Arrange to catch up over coffee or on the phone.

Healthy Competition In Team Sports Teaches Life Skills

The word “competition” brings to mind images of athletes or sports teams striving to do their best and working hard to accomplish significant goals. For most of us, achieving goals and enjoying life is at least partially dependent on working together and getting along with others. Many of these essential relational skills are learned in the developing years as children move from childhood through adolescence and into adulthood. Given the importance of these key life skills, our society would benefit greatly by ensuring that kids are provided with ample opportunities for working together and getting along with people. Such relational skills can be effectively taught (and caught) in the context of an organized sports program.It seems that kids are born with an innate sense of competition and a desire to win. Our society, schools, and sports programs all cater to this inclination to compete with various games and challenges. Such challenges have been a part of human society from the beginning, and this competition develops a number of important skills for use throughout life.As an example, the desire to be the champion and top dog often pushes people further than they would choose to go on their own. This dogged determination to win is what drives Olympic athletes, CEOs, and many leaders to attain to lofty positions. However, the downside of unchecked competition is that negative traits including roughness, a domineering attitude, and unsportsmanlike conduct can develop and can take over a person. Such negative traits can be very harmful, and if not kept in check, can lead to damaged and broken relationships.


This danger for unguided winners to develop poor attitudes is precisely the reason we should encourage children to get involved in team sports programs and other organizations where healthy competition is encouraged and promoted. It is often within these organizations that essential life skills are taught and where the development of proper attitudes can be nurtured.By participating in organized team sports, kids can begin to truly experience the thrill of winning and the pain and discouragement of defeat. By experiencing these emotions in the context of their sports community, children can begin to understand the roots of their emotions and how their emotions can affect others. In addition, parents and coaches can observe how kids react and can provide encouragement and guidance as needed when and if inappropriate behavior and reactions are observed.Within the context of an organized sports program, a skilled coach can help and encourage the winners to revel in the victory, and yet do so in a way that does not put down the losers. In fact, if the kids on the winning team can learn how to reach out and encourage kids on the losing team, they have learned an extremely valuable lesson that will serve them well throughout their lives. In the same way, the losers must learn the essential skill of losing well and not withdrawing in self-pity or lashing out at the winners, their teammates, or their coach. Winning and losing are a continual part of life, and developing key skills to cope with victory and loss will go a long way in helping young people cope effectively with the ups and downs of life.In developing life skills, there is a significant difference between team sports such as basketball, baseball, and soccer and individual sports such as tennis and racquetball. Individual sports typically focus on developing the competitive side of an individual, but organized sports programs can teach so much more. On a team, the children learn to work together to accomplish things that they could never do on their own. In addition, the coach can provide encouragement and direction, and the kids themselves can encourage each other when they are down. On a team, kids can also develop the confidence to try new things that they might otherwise not try. Such an encouraging and supportive environment is rarely found in an individual sport, but can be commonly found on sports teams. Out of necessity, teams learn to work together to accomplish mutual goals and such skills will help carry them through life and work.


In summary, the competition and cooperation that occurs in organized sports programs can be very healthy and helpful for developing essential life skills. In a well-run program, team sports encourage children to work together, encourage one another, and get along with others. A quality and gifted coach can develop these skills in children, and our children would be well-served into adulthood and our society would benefit by having these skills engrained into our children’s character.

Five Similarities Between Religion and Spirituality

When we were children we were asked, Which came first, the chicken or the egg? If we based our answer on the creation story in the Bible, we would answer, Chicken. But if we based our answer on our experience in raising chickens, our answer would be, Egg.The same can be said of the answer to the question, Which came first, Religion or Spirituality?In terms of our experience with religious books and discussions, religion came first. It is only now that more and more people are talking about spirituality and writing about it. In terms of the origin of the reality behind those words or in terms of the object of our understanding, spirituality came first. The spirit was there before there was any religion. God was there before there was anybody to worship him.We can even say that spirituality is an offshoot of religion. For many centuries people professed religion. Some of them fiercely opposed religions other their own. Christians for many centuries opposed paganism, Islam, Hinduism, Buddhism, and any other religion. This has happened also with paganism, Islam, and the rest with respect to the other religions. They too opposed other religions.


But more and more people discover that mere religion cannot answer their deeper yearning for a better experience of life. So, they turned to something deeper and better than religion. They found this in spirituality.Because spirituality in a sense is an offshoot of religion, there is bound to be some similarity between them, just like the similarity between the egg and the chicken.First, both believe in a higher power of some kind. Religion believes in God the Father or Jesus, or Allah, or Brahman, or Tao. Spirituality believes also in this God or it may conceive of God as a universal or primal energy. Both believe that such being possesses power higher and greater than what we have.Secondly, both religion and spirituality desire to have a relationship with this higher power. Although the nature of the relationship is different in religion than in spirituality, the desire for this relationship is there. Religion connects with this higher power with fear and trembling. Spirituality connects with this higher power with love and affection.Thirdly, both religion and spirituality have rituals and practices which deepen one’s religiosity or spirituality. Religion usually has sacred rites or sacraments. Spirituality has meditation or yoga sessions.


Fourthly, both have respect for the sacred, the other worldly. This is not just respect for God. This is respect for the reality that is beyond our senses and reason. When religion pushes this respect to its extreme, it becomes superstition. When spirituality pushes this respect to its extreme, it becomes religious spirituality.Fifthly, both have fear of failure. In religion this failure is punished by hell fire or repetition of existence or some other worse fate. In spirituality this failure is the inability to realize one’s true worth or value and the destiny of a life of meaninglessness. Hell, repetition of existence, non-existence, meaninglessness are forms of punishment for failure, either in religion or in spirituality.

Short Introduction of Canteen Related Products

These days one can find a lot of new, modern, technologically advanced appliances made for the kitchen. Earlier Refrigerator, Gas stove, Toaster, etc. were considered to be very Hi-Fi appliances. But these days one can find them in every house, yes, even the poorest of slums. One cannot live without them and their prices have fallen so much that almost everyone can afford them.Today all these appliances are considered as basic/fundamental kitchen appliances. New advanced appliances include the latest of Microwaves, Dish washers, Electric Ovens, and many other kitchen Gizmos. They are offered by almost all the leading electrical companies of the world like Sony, Samsung, GE etc.


Kitchen Appliances are broadly of two types, Basic or Fundamental appliances and Luxury kitchen Appliances. Basic appliances are the ones without which one can not survive in the kitchen today. Like we can not cook without a stove, or store food without a refrigerator.Coffee maker, Tea maker, etc. are treated as luxury appliances. Luxury kitchen appliances are those appliances which one purchases for luxury, that is, to reduce ones workload in the kitchen, and to make some tasks easier. For example, you don’t really need a coffee maker everyday, but they make your job a hell of a lot easier when you have guests over. Similarly, you can make tea on the stove, but it’s much easier to use a Tea Maker for it.The luxury appliances are generally more expensive than other basic ones. But one can purchase them at a discounted price during seasonal sales or by purchasing a lot of such appliances together at a whole sale price from a wholesale canteen/kitchen products shop. There are many such offers running these days which take place every season, say at the end of the summer and winter for example. You can also buy luxury items in second hand shops though you need to make sure they items you purchase are fairly new and in good working condition. Second hands luxury goods come very cheap, though there is no guarantee on their usable life.